Every so often we get caught up in the stress of the holiday season and it can take a toll on one’s feelings about Christmas. It might be the personal loss you feel during the holiday season for a loved one. It might be as simple as too much to do in such a short period of time. It might be the financial stress you feel wanting to make sure that everyone has a great Christmas. It might be the hustle and bustle; all the traffic and crowded stores that are getting to you. Whatever the case, don’t let the Christmas holidays get the best of you.
I love Christmas. I love the Christmas carols, the Christmas cookies, the giving of gifts, the Christmas trees and the excitement I see in little ones. I love seeing people shop, all dressed up, the Christmas shows, going to church and seeing Santa at every turn. It’s all great fun. Is the season over commercialized? Of course it is. It is possible though to keep everything in balance if you choose to.
I think most people remember that Christmas is about the birth of Jesus. I really do. Sure, we get caught up in all the trimmings and stress of the holiday but in the end, we do indeed celebrate the birth of Christ. Everyone does it a little differently and that’s part of what makes it all the more special. The trimmings, the store Santa, the shopping and gift giving all contribute to our celebration of his birth.
I know when I feel in danger of losing my Christmas spirit, there are several things I can do to help bring me back around. First and foremost for me is attending a worship service and singing the Christmas carols I remember caroling as a youngster. Those magical hymns and songs bring joy to any heart. Secondly, I find my way to Santa and watch the little ones with all the wonder in their eyes waiting to sit on Santa’s lap. There is nothing like a toddler seeing Santa for the first time. I cherish the memories I have of my three children seeing Santa.
For me, I embrace my memories of Christmas. I remember the plastic bowling ball set I received when I was ten. I remember the anxiety I felt buying my first Christmas present at 19 years old for my girlfriend. I remember how alone I felt at Christmas when I was in the Army. I remember how my own children in those first few years were always more fascinated with the boxes and wrapping paper than the gifts. I remember the book of coupons with special gifts I received from my love. I remember how Christmas brought a family in great despair the hope and inspiration they all needed to persevere.
All these memories of love and celebration are with me today. I may not have the Christmas I would hope for this year but I will keep Christmas close and in my heart. If you have lost your Christmas spirit, go find it. It’s waiting for you in your most cherished memories.
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